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Much like myself, many artists I work with have other demands on their time and energy. From family commitments to health issues, along with indulging other passions or occupations, artists are not always producing work full-time and need very real strategies for staying connected to their art-making and re-engaging with the work when they are able to return to the studio. For most artists, art-making is a life purpose, which is why we feel the calling so deeply. Ideally, we want to consistently engage with our art practice, as it is through our creative work that we create meaning-making opportunities for ourselves and develop our craft. However, it’s likely not our only life purpose, as we may have multiple areas of focus in our lives that feed our need for meaning and connection. As a result, we may find ourselves taking time away from our art-making to serve these other life purposes. We may also be taking time away to deal with some of the very real aspects of life—family, health, financial stability, etc. With that understanding, we can assume that having periods away from our art practice is likely to occur for us for various reasons. But why do we struggle so much when it happens, and what can we do to make this pattern more acceptable for ourselves? What helps us stay connected to our art-making when we experience these breaks? Here are a few points that can help: Reframe the feeling of absence I learned a long time ago that I needed to reframe these periods of absence from my art-making as something more manageable and lower the volume on my anxiety around them. Being an artist and a coach meant that breaks from my creative work were inevitable. When I wasn’t able to hold these times of absence in a healthy way, I would have so much negative energy to face and clear out before I could begin working once more. I would have to spend what time I did have in the studio trying to get ready to work, rather than actually working. This significantly lessened the quality of the time I had available to me and compounded the feeling of absence, creating a cycle that felt deeply challenging to overcome. And, like clockwork, resistance would arrive. What I discovered, as I began exploring what was at play for me, was that reframing the feelings I was experiencing when I wasn’t able to make my creative work shifted things significantly. As I dug deeper and tuned into what the absence was creating within me, I realized these feelings were actually a form of longing. And the mindset I was holding was overlaying that longing with feelings of frustration and angst. So instead, I leaned into how much I actually missed my studio work and allowed myself to eagerly anticipate returning to it, rather than shaming myself for not doing better. I thought about paintings, imagined making work and exploring ideas, and wrote in my sketchbook journal as often as possible to cement these feelings into my awareness. This made such a difference for me. When we can affirm and connect with how much we are looking forward to our studio time—rather than focusing on lack—we focus on the sweetness of reuniting with our work once more. Where we place our focus, our energy goes. How might you reframe breaks from your art-making?
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